A post at Abdullah’s p0ach inspired me to write this post. I saw some “steps to get over her/him” in a magazine, and I thought I’d share the main points, with giving my own take to it, ready? here goes:
1- Keep a clean house/room: Well, this step would not necessarily apply here in Kuwait because people in relationships do not live together, unless married and that’s a whole other topic. So I’d say the first step it take everything that reminds you of her/him out of your place. Gifts, clothes, movies…etc. BUT do that only if you’re the type of person who gets nostalgic easily, who’s always reminiscing. If her/his stuff being around doesn’t affect you much, then more power to you.
2- Hide your mobile: Are you the type of person whose day revolves around a phone call? yes? ok here’s what to do, throw your phone, or keep it with one of your trusted friends, if you keep your phone by your side, you’ll always be waiting, and checking, did it ring? will she/he call? a message? an email? a facebook notification..etc. that thinking will only lower your productivity and bring you down. Think of it this way, keep in your mind that they won’t call, won’t text, won’t do anything associated with contacting you, and live your day on those basis. If they called, you’d know, and take it as a “bonus”. If not, you knew that they wouldn’t and won’t be shocked as to why they didn’t contact you, HOW DARE THEY not contact you? you’ll see.